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Monday, February 18, 2013
Alcohol & Drugs ... the cause of violence?
Many would say that the use of drugs and alcohol cause violent behavior but is this something that was proven or thought of? For years many people believed that the cause of violence was alcohol and the use of some type of drug. But no one ever dared to raise questions against such a statement. In reading the article I learned that the use of these things do not cause violent behavior and the phrase 'I didn't know what I was doing, I was drunk" is now used an excuse for irrational behavior such as domestic violence. I myself believed that substance abuse was a reason for violence because growing up that's what I was told and that's what people instilled in me. After reading the article and the textbook I now have a different view on "theories" and the traditions that people have. When I think of abuse or the beating of a woman the first thing that comes to mind is Chris Brown and Rihanna's situation a few years ago. As I think of this situation I don't recall anyone saying that Chris Brown was "under the influence", he beat her for his own personal reasons. Yet no one has questioned whether abusing substances has to do with violence in relationships. In reading the text book I learned that social structure teaches people how to act, therefore we go with the labels that are put on us by society and we never really step back "out of the theories and truly think for ourselves. The cause of the abuse is linked to everything going on in one's life maybe what they saw as a child going up or maybe their belief of having power over a woman or maybe they were abused as a child or maybe just had a rough time growing up. There are many different things that affect people and how they react or treat other people usually these things stem from childhood. In my opinion I believe one can change what was instilled in them as a child and soon be a better person only if they are willing to..
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In your reading its true of what you said, we grew up to know that, alcohol and drugs are the things that caused violence in our society. And now a days that's all the excuse anybody would say if they made a crime or did something by mistake. But, I always thought they just use that to safe themselves and cover there mistakes because chances are it might become a crime. You actually gave a great example of this, when few years ago Chris and Rihanna's situation, its true, they never stated that he was under the influences so how why did he beat Rihanna? of course in both ways he would of been in fault especially in taking drugs or drinking because it might affect his music career so he had to admit it was something she did, that he didn't like, I still think he could of talked it out, instead of beating her up like that. After reading your post about all this now I know for sure, drinking and taking drugs are just excuses just to cover up the lies people make.
ReplyDeleteHey Nasia, it was very interesting seeing how you connected your own believe with the article. I do agree that eventhough for some people alcohol maybe a reason to bring violence it is not all about it, feeling high or disy is not loosing your sences Or not knowing what you do, for me you still know what you do when you are drunk, alcohol and drugs are just ways for people to avoid problems.
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